cinta sepihak di sosmed

Hallo.

Aku ingin curhat dulu ya.

aku dan dia berkenalan di dunia sosmed sejak 2009 melalui chatting n fb….masih SMA tuh saat itu…
nah..aku sering sms.an sama dia sejak thn 2009 smpe skrg…segala sosmed yg ada, aku dah jd tmn dia….kami tak pernah ketemu, karna terpisah oleh lautan, beda pulau..

waktu sma, aku g percaya yg namanya cinta di dunia maya.
tp, sejak aku kenal dia… aku baru percaya..
hubungan dan komunikasi yg selalu terjalin, membuat aku nyaman, suka dan syg sama dia,..
awalnya aku mengira dia juga suka sama aku, karna dia sangat perhatian, tp waktu thn 2010 aku tahu dia punya pcr, hatiku sedih bgt….ingin bgt lupain dia…
tp dia ttp saja memberikan perhatian pdku..
dia malah mengirimkan aku kado ultah.. gimana coba mau lupain dia…
sampai pd thn 2012 aq udh pnya pcr. dia tdk tahu aku sdh pny pcr, pd thn itu dia msh mngrimkan aku kado ultah..namun thn beriktnya dia seolah lupa dg ultahku, tak ada ucpn selamat…aku sedih.

dia msh bbm sring bbm aku , tp dia sengaja tdk bbm aku saat ultahku..

walaupun aku sdh pnya pcr dan syg sama pcrku…aku tak memungkiri, aku jg suka sama tmn dunia maya ku itu..masalahnya rasa syg yg ku miliki selalu ku pendam,
aku tak pernah menyatakan cintaku pdanya.
aku takut dia tdk mau lg berkomunikasi dg ku..
selama ini dia hnya menganggap ku adik, itulah yg selalu dia bilang,
sekarang dia udah punya pacar, aku sedih bgt lihat dia pasang DP berdua sama kekasihnya.
aku pernah bilang kalau aku akan berusaha utk tdk menghubunginya lg, tp dia malah bilang kalau dia ingin aku jd adiknya selamanya. dan tdk ada komunikasi yg terputus..

bingung aku jadinya, dia gak ngerti apa kalau aku tuh sayang sama dia.. mau ku lupain tp dia nya kyk gt…jika cintaku tak terbalas karna kita sudah punya pasangan masing2, tp aku ingin dia tahu perasaanku ke dia. tp aku takut dia akan marah
susah ngomong lagi..
mohon beri aku petunjuk.. :(

surya, kumbang dan bunga

aku merasa gamang,
berdiri di cahaya remang-remang
hatiku merasa tak tenang..
jiwaku berada di awang-awang.

hati ku beku
namun akan pecah jika kau pukul
aku terbelenggu dengan masa lalu
yang mengguncang ku dalam ketakutan pilu.

sang suryaku telah memilih mu
sebagai kumbang untuk bunganya
namun ketika kumbang kepanasan akan sang surya.
bunga menjadi layu
tak bisa memilih antara kumbang dan surya.
karna surya dan kumbang adalah jiwanya

Minangkabau People

Minangkabau people are embracing the region's largest matrilineal kinship system in the world. where the lineage of descent is determined mother, not from the father. Minangkabau people have principles, namely “adat basandi syarak, syarak basandi kitabullah”.

Minangkabau people are very prominent in the field of commerce, many of the people minangkbau wander in the big cities in Indonesia, even abroad. For me Minangkabau people are very cunning, but can also be said to be lazy. We can see that minang people not want to lost, they are confined when it wants out, and pinned at the top. The point is they are people who want to be happy and do not want to lose.
         They can also be said to be lazy, as most of the minang people little work and eat a lot. We can see the minang people who work as porters of buildings, they are a little work, and if there are certain foods company spirit.

         I think that Minangkabau people a lot of mockers. They are very fond of mocking something or the people around them. But they are not necessarily better. I am also Minangkabau people, also sometimes mocked. Maybe something funny or strange to see, would be immediately comment.

        Minagkabau people have ordinances or attitude in speech, in which we should not speak carelessly, like

1. Word up, this is a word used to talk with people we respect, or older.

2. The word to the decline, this is the word used for people smaller than us, such  as the sister

3. The word landscape, the word used for people who are age

4. The word ramp, said that a metaphor or innuendo.

BAD IMPACT OF TECHNOLOGY IN HUMAN LIFE

             Technological development is now very advanced. Many of the benefits that we can feel from the current technological advances. Technological advances like the internet, machines and computers can ease our lives, both in the move or communicate. The technology is more advanced at this time also allows us to live in perform an activity. We can also save time with the help of technology. Such as mobile phones, internet, household tools made of machines and others.
However, technology also has adverse effects, namely a lot of crime happens, pornography and human decadence. And the terrible effects can be felt in terms of health. Here is an explanation of the negative impact of technology in human life.

1. Easily happened crimes

Many of us see rampant crime is everywhere now. These crimes committed by perpetrators with the help of technology. With it they would be easier to perform various acts of crime, such as fraud, terrorism, kidnapping, bombing and others. Facebook is one social networking site on the internet is used by criminals to look for prey. As we can see a few months ago, in case of sale of women, and identity fraud on facebook. Increasingly sophisticated technological advances are also used by terrorists to assemble a bomb. Many people who are experts in technology, such as computer experts use their knowledge to things that are bad. Such as ATM burglary incidents or customer funds in a bank. So the technology is not just as a human friend, but also can be a dangerous enemy to man.
For that in using the technology we must be careful, lest we become targets of crime, such as using atm safely, that does not store the pin number in places that easy to know people. Using social networking sites with caution, do not be too trusting with people who are newly recognized. Especially in cyberspace.

2. Pornography

Advances in technology greatly facilitates the spread of pornography action throughout society, including children under age. Through the Internet, people can download and watch videos or pornographic images. Not only that, a lot of pornography that they take action. As we see, the people who commit acts of pornography that utilize the technology in action. They record the actions of pornography that they have created and uploaded to the internet, and spread into the middle of the community. They perform acts of pornography that, because they are interested to try it after seeing the videos. People also use mobile phones as a place for distributing pornography. Most of them are students. Advanced mobile phone and has complete facilities for video and bluetooth allows students to view pornographic videos.

3. Moral decline

The more rapid advancement of technology can make a moral that is in humans was reduced or lost. Moral decay that occurs in the community that happens when people just wants love. For the love that they use every means, even to perform acts crimes. Technology can give pleasure in human life, but it can make people blind with pleasure. So become a human being is immoral and thirst with pleasure and ease of living alone. With advanced technology, many people now no longer keep his words. Many of them say dirty on the internet or in sms. It is because they have nothing to fear if someone else is offended by his words. Moral values ​​in them are gone with the sophisticated technology.

4. Health
Adverse effects of the technology also can we feel in our health. As the effects of radiation or radiation hp signals from other electronic goods. Radiation from such technology can cause problems in our health such as cancer can get sick. Even the overuse of computer, TV or phone can damage our eyes.
The impact of the technologies in life there are good and bad. Adverse effects of technology such as crime, pornography and decadence. If we can use that technology to something useful in life, why should we use to be a bad thing?. Good or bad depending on how the impact of the technology we use advances in technology that exist in people's lives

Conclusion
So, after wrote a paper about it, entitled devastating impact of this technology in human life. I Can be concluded that the technology is not always good for humans. Will but also bad. We can see the many crimes happened through and with the help of technology. And pornography is easily spread among people. So that they can become perpetrators of pornography as well after that. The impact of technology also leads to moral decay in the center of community life. And also argues against the negative health. Where can cause cancer of the influence of radiation.